I spoke with one of my best friends, one colleague, and an uncle that has been incarcerated for the last 22 years on their views of culture and diversity.
My best friend is Caucasian, married to an African American man with two bi-racial children. When asked about her definition of culture, her response was, "It's a way of life." She went on to share with me how she and her husband had to adapt to each other's culture from food to discipline methods in regards to their children. Her definition of diversity was, "MY OWN FAMILY!" She laughed and said "We are very diverse, meaning different."
My colleague is from India, and has a difficult time understanding English if you speak to "fast". Her definition of culture was, "My beliefs, my own life practices. When I asked her about diversity, she said she really wasn't sure what I was saying. I didn't want to frustrate her, she tells me all the time that she doesn't understand me all the time because I talk to fast!
My uncle has recently converted to Muslim since he has been studying books in prison. I do not speak with him very often, but he happened to call collect last night, so I took advantage of his new belief as far as religion is concerned. He even changed his birth name. He actually told me that was part of what makes him diverse. He feels as if culture is the way he was raised, morals that were instilled in him. He said that even though he chose a different path in life, he will never forget where he came from and what my grandparents drilled into him to be a good man. He said he wishes that he would have taken life and his upbringing more seriously and he may not have ended up spending his entire life in prison away from family.
The responses to the definition of culture are pretty comparable to the definitions from the media segment and readings in this course. I mostly agree with my best friend's definition being "a way of life".
I think dominant culture was omitted and I do believe that my colleague from India is part of a dominant culture. She consults with her husband for everything. She does not drive or make decisions for herself. She has to consult with him before she agrees on anything. I have observed this behavior myself.
I would really like to revisit the definition of diversity with my colleague and help her understand the meaning because I feel it is important to know what diversity consists of. I will even talk "slow" so she can understand me!
I think once you explain diversity to your colleague she will more than likely have a word or concept for it in her own language. India has a very diverse history and population and there are differences among the individual beliefs that make up India.
ReplyDeleteHi Theresa - I enjoyed reading your blog. I agree with your friend that culture is "A way of life." What a wonderful coincidence that your uncle called and you could speak with him about these topics. Our childhood culture impacts who we are today and he seems to appreciate that fact. He also shows how we can choose some of our social identities by changing his religion. I also think your friend will understand what diversity is once you explain it to her. Thank you for sharing their definitions with us.
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